It can be very hard to lose someone you are close to. Whether they become sick, or they pass suddenly, it can be a shock to us.
It is even harder for those that do not know that our existence here on earth is just a very small part of who we really are. We are all born to earth with our own reasons for being here. Sometimes we consciously know the reason we are here, more often than not we are not aware of it until after our passing.
When you have lost, or are in the process of losing someone you love, please allow yourself to grieve, and allow yourself to be sad. Grieve for yourself though. Not necessarily for your loved one. Your loved one is fine. Your loved one is not losing anything. Your loved is going home to be in and of the light again. They have nothing to worry about.
It is those of us left behind that are losing something. We feel the loss and separation from the person who has left us. They don’t feel the separation, we do. When they go home to the light they are more connected than they ever could have been while in the earth energy.
Do not think of what they did not have the chance to do in this lifetime. No matter what their age, if they are going home, they are done here. They have completed what they came here to do, and can now go home, knowing that they succeeded with what they came here for. They can see us here, they can join us for family events if they want to, they are not ‘missing’ anything.
There are many souls that decided to come to earth during this time of change. Just as they have come to earth during other times of big shifts and change on the earth. A lot of these souls are now done here. The change has occurred, there has been a massive shift in the collective consciousness over the past 10 years. There are many wonderful, loving souls that came here to assist with that. They are done. They now get to go home. You WILL see them again.
So do not grieve for them. Do not feel sad for them. Allow yourself to grieve for yourself, feel sad for your own loss, to say good-bye. Tears can be cleansing. Just remember to be sad for the loss of the love and friendship you had with your loved one, for the space they occupied in your life. Fill that space with love; use prayer, meditation, whatever it takes to help yourself get through the loss. Just do not grieve for where they are now, because now they are home.
With love and gratitude for the space you all have in my life.
Tamara
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Thanks Tami…I needed that reminder;)
You’re welcome Tara, I think a lot of us do at the moment.
Love T