Comments on: There's a Difference Between Compassionate and Controlling Behaviour https://tamarahawk.com/2011/07/18/theres-a-difference-between-compassionate-and-controlling-behaviour/ Psychic Readings, Mentoring, and Spiritual Counselling Worldwide by Phone, E-mail or In Person Fri, 28 Aug 2015 20:24:21 +0000 hourly 1 By: Tamara Hawk https://tamarahawk.com/2011/07/18/theres-a-difference-between-compassionate-and-controlling-behaviour/#comment-47593 Fri, 28 Aug 2015 20:24:21 +0000 http://www.tamarahawk.com/?p=810#comment-47593 In reply to Patty.

Thanks Patty 3>

]]> By: Patty https://tamarahawk.com/2011/07/18/theres-a-difference-between-compassionate-and-controlling-behaviour/#comment-47592 Fri, 28 Aug 2015 20:22:31 +0000 http://www.tamarahawk.com/?p=810#comment-47592 I agree with you, that is very worth reposting.
Thank you for doing that.
Patty

]]> By: Tamara Hawk https://tamarahawk.com/2011/07/18/theres-a-difference-between-compassionate-and-controlling-behaviour/#comment-98 Fri, 14 Oct 2011 00:14:26 +0000 http://www.tamarahawk.com/?p=810#comment-98 In reply to Kathleen.

Nice to hear from you Kathleen, sorry to hear you are in a difficult spot right now. I have actually written another blog post that will be up on Monday, Oct. 17th that also has to do with relationships ~ I think it might help.
I know first hand how hard it can be to live while walking on eggshells. Things can get better. Watch for my next post and let me know if it helps.
Love, Hugs and Healing
Tamara

]]> By: Kathleen https://tamarahawk.com/2011/07/18/theres-a-difference-between-compassionate-and-controlling-behaviour/#comment-97 Thu, 13 Oct 2011 22:22:11 +0000 http://www.tamarahawk.com/?p=810#comment-97 Hi Linda and Tamara,

(Tamara: Helllooo!..It has been awhile since we”ve had our group ‘tea’ 🙂 Glad your doing well! I miss the chats.)

Anywho, to Linda…I too am in a relationship (9yrs and I’m 43)that is over-bearing with his bi-polar type mooods with me and our entire family. I can’t bear another inappropriate fight or cruel CRUEL words toward me and my 16 yr old son. (We live in a blended family). What was your emotional home-life like living with your husbands? I tend to think it is my fault and I also tend to make sure everyone is happy so nothing rock the boat for him to get pissed off and act out in a very harsh manner.
I have contiplating a seperation…however; it’s difficult when we also share a 5 yr old and I am again starting out as a Realtor. Sigh.

Great topic Tamara! Couldn’t have come at a better time for me. (even though you wrote this blog in August.)
Any feedback? 🙁
Kathleen

]]> By: Tamara Hawk https://tamarahawk.com/2011/07/18/theres-a-difference-between-compassionate-and-controlling-behaviour/#comment-96 Wed, 03 Aug 2011 20:11:18 +0000 http://www.tamarahawk.com/?p=810#comment-96 In reply to Linda.

Hi Linda, I am so happy to hear that you are moving forward with your life. I wish you all the best and am sending lots of love and hugs your way!
As for my friend in example #2, I was only upset for a very short time, I send her nothing but love too.
I am glad you enjoyed the numerology reports.
Love
Tamara

]]> By: Linda https://tamarahawk.com/2011/07/18/theres-a-difference-between-compassionate-and-controlling-behaviour/#comment-95 Wed, 03 Aug 2011 15:08:33 +0000 http://www.tamarahawk.com/?p=810#comment-95 Tamara, It’s so good to hear from you. You’re topic is very interesting. I am actually in that world right now. It’s very difficult. First, Don’t be to hard on you’re 2nd example. She has probably lived that way for a long time and that is her comfort zone. It would be hard for her to step out on her own, she is not used to the real love that is out there for her. I feel for her. It can be very lonely. For me, I have been married to a Schizophrenic and am married to a Sociopath now. I am 53 now and finally realize I can’t live like this anymore. I want friends, I want to be close to my family,I want my freedom to think and do and love. I am starting to see those things now. I am getting my divorce, I do everything I can to stay away from him. It’s a little scarey because I not sure what direction I will be going in. But I stay positive. For the first time in my life I can say it feels wonderful to know what friends and family are all about. What a great feeling. But one has to be ready to let go of all that negative energy or you will stuck. By the way, Your numerology reports you did for me and my sons are amazing

Sincerely

Linda

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