Why is it so hard for you to receive or accept what is offered?  The Universe is extremely abundant.  There is so much available to you.  Love, money, food, housing, friends, health, the list is endless.  You all have something that you want more of in your life.  Don’t you think its time to actually let it in?

Yes, often when something is offered there needs to be an exchange of energy.  There are many forms of energy.  Emotions are a form of energy, work you might do for someone is a form of energy, money is a form of energy.  I personally exchange my gifts and my knowledge for money.  I prefer it this way, when I do this, I have more freedom to exchange my money for the gifts and knowledge that I wish to receive from someone else.  Sometimes gifts and knowledge can be exchanged for the gifts and knowledge of someone else directly or exchanged for services.

Love and gratitude are also energy.  Sometimes we might do something for someone and the only energy exchanged is love.  Each situation and each person is unique in this regard.  We all have a currency, and our currencies change day-to-day, circumstance to circumstance, moment to moment.

The remainder of this post, is about money and financial abundance.

First off, if you want more money, you need to ask for it.  So many people think that they should not charge for what they do.  I am not saying to never do something just out of the goodness of your heart, but “Ask and ye shall receive”.  No asking, no receiving.

Another point.  Make sure that you are not ONLY placing value on that which you pay for.  I myself, do have somewhat of a belief that “You get what you pay for”, and will often pay more for what I deem to be ‘quality’ rather than cheap out on something.

HOWEVER, I also work with the Law of Attraction, and I often ask for things that I want in my life.  If I ask for something and someone comes along and gives it to me, (even for free), I have NO PROBLEM whatsoever in receiving it with gratitude.

What I am getting at with this post is that sometimes things will just come to you, out of the blue, with no strings, simply because you asked.  You need to get out of your head, stop thinking “Can’t get something for nothing” and let yourself take it!!!

I know it’s a foreign concept for most people because we have been programmed in a very convoluted way, but you CAN get something for nothing.  A lot of the time.  If you get your vibration to a certain point, and start allowing yourself to hold a higher vibration, stuff will be attracted to you like dog hair on black jeans.

If someone offers you something that you want, or would like to try out, take it.  If they later ask for something in return (a further commitment from you to purchase something perhaps), make a conscious decision if you want or like or need what they are offering, and be okay with what you decide.  If you decide that what they are offering is not for you, that’s fine. Say so!  It’s not a big deal.  So you got something for free.  Be happy.  Don’t beat yourself up and think that you have any obligations to anyone.  You don’t.

If you decide that you want what they are offering, then buy it.  Pretty simple.

We have been programmed with such a lack mentality over the years we no longer even receive things without feeling guilty.  It’s like we have this bizarre notion that if we receive abundance then someone else will be going without something.  Oh, if I am rich then my neighbour will be poor.  Are you kidding me?!?

Right now you are both lacking!  What is you attracting abundance going to do to your neighbour?  Absolutely nothing.  Unless of course your neighbour asks how you are doing so well.  In which case you can teach him what you know and then you will BOTH have more abundance in your life.  You teaching him about abundance will no more make you poor, than you being rich will make him poor.

When we are empowered in ourselves, we actually feel good for other people when they are doing well.  At this point in my life, I genuinely care about you and I get really authentically happy when people around me (or even people I see), are happy.  I LOVE IT!

That is why I love my job so much.  I get huge amounts of happiness from seeing you do well!  There will actually be people who read this and think that I am being selfish.  “You are making people happier, helping them have more fulfilling lives, teaching them and helping them to have or be or do whatever they want and you are getting enjoyment from it!”  How dare you love your job!  How dare you charge money for this (reminder yet again, I have to eat, have a family and a mortgage, hello), how dare you be living your dream life while I suffer.  All I have to say to that is.  ALLOW THE ABUNDANCE TO COME, be truly happy for all you have and be truly happy for those people you see who have what you want.  YOu will create such a big ball of high vibrating positive energy it will have a gravitational pull stronger than the one of the earth, and you will pull and attract everything into your life that you could possibly imagine.

If you would like me to teach you more (yes, for a financial exchange of energy), you can see more on this page of my website.  Psychic Mentoring/Coaching