You need to be you ya know. The world needs you just as you are. Not as you think maybe you should be to please anyone else.  Be you.  JUST YOU.

I hate to put this in writing, BUT…. I have talked to many people today who seem to be having problems with ‘other people’.

Left to their own devices, they feel they would be just fine, but other people keep screwing them up (or over, or under, or whatever).

Here is a tip.  Don’t let the opinions of other people mess with your head, your heart, your feelings or what you know is right for you.

Other People’s Opinion of You Don’t Count

This doesn’t mean that you need to be mean or ‘firm’ with people who don’t get the real you.  You simply just need to stop giving them your attention.  Even if you live with them, or bump in to them all the time, or if you must talk to them (for the sake of the kids, or because they are at your work), just don’t give them your attention.

You need to be you.  Whenever you give your attention to someone and that causes YOU to feel badly, you are not being yourself.  I am NOT saying that they are causing you to feel anything, that is impossible.  I am saying your attention to them, is allowing you to feel uncomfortable.

Let them think or be or do whatever they want.  Its not your business, nor is it your problem.  Your only focus should be on you.  Not everyone will love you or respect you or agree with you, not your problem.

Find people who are more like you when you are being you, and hang out with them.  Then you can be happily YOU more often.

You Are Not at Anyone Else’s Mercy

Sometimes you might think that you are stuck with (or around) someone and you cannot be your best self while around them.  I do see how this happens (I used to be in a work situation where it was hard to be myself).  The thing is, you do not need to let that keep you from being you.

You may need to keep quiet (or keep your opinions to yourself) around certain people, but that doesn’t mean you aren’t you.  It is much easier to hold your energetic space when you don’t engage with people who are vibrating at such a different level.

The thing with this is, if you can really be the YOU that you know you are, the you that loves, the you that is aware of intuition, that knows there is more to life than this, you will be better off ~ even around difficult people.

The absolute best part of this though is that once you are able to hold your vibration, to BE YOU, more often, the less the challenging people will even show up for you.  They won’t be a vibrational match to you, so they will go.  Even if they still live, or work in the same general space as you, you simply won’t be interacting with them as much.

As you interact with them less, and continue to be the lovely you that you know you are, you will attract more and more people into your life that help you be you.  That will allow you to be you.  People that will be so “gosh darn happy” that you are you ~ even you will start appreciating yourself.

Love

Tamara

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