Hi Sonnit,
We need to start with a willingness to heal. Sometimes we put up barriers because we feel we need to protect ourselves. These barriers can actually keep us from healing. Try praying or affirming (whichever way you want to put it), “Help me be willing to heal”. No amount of affirming about healing will work if you cannot get the willingness first (I hope this makes sense to you).
I would also like to ask you, when you go to psychics are you asking them how you can heal, or are you asking them “when will I have a relationship”.
The type of question you ask or how you ask it has a lot to do with the answer you get. We are creating as we go along. If you are asking about when you will have a relationship, no psychic can answer that because you have not yet put yourself in an energetic position (vibration) to have one.
Can you heal? YES
Are you willing to heal? No, not yet, but you can be VERY QUICKLY if you allow for it.
If you wanted to try a reading with me with the intention being set on helping you to heal and on what you can do to get farther, we can do that.
I also do remote energy clearing and healing sessions 4 times a year and have one coming up in about 2 weeks if you wanted to try it out. The link is here http://www.tamarahawk.com/21-day-energy-clearing-and-healing-offering/

It was really good to read your blog. I had been living in desperation/fear for about 2 years and almost every relationship that I went in failed leading me to be more vulnerable and desperate. Now, that I try connecting to psychics – almost 80% of Top readers say that they can’t connect with me. I am guessing it is because my energy i send is full of fear.. I wanted to know how do I heal?

Thank you Tamara. I have no idea how to stop this…I really want to see a medium and talk to my mother. Do you have any tips for me to allow this to happen?

Hi Lynn,
I do think that generally speaking most psychics can be read. One of the most common reasons that I have found (been told by my peeps), that psychics can’t be read is because they think they already know everything and they are not open to hearing anything that is different than what they already think. This makes it much like ‘pulling teeth’ to the reader and it tires them out, and so nothing bothers to come through.
The other biggest blocks that I have found are fear of what you might hear (that will block messages), desperation or grief, and thinking you cannot be read (law of attraction dictates that if you think you cannot be read for, you cannot be read for).
Hope this helps,
Love
Tamara

Yes, its a shame. We (psychics) are not “perfect”, and sometimes things just don’t come for one reason or another. Too many psychics try and make stuff up when they get nothing instead of admitting it. It can give others a bad name when a psychic makes stuff up. Hopefully those that are authentic will live in the light and do readings for the “highest and best good of all”, and start to leave it when nothing flows.

You’re welcome Barb, and thanks for your comment.
I think you can absolutely learn to see things for yourself as well. Keep in mind, that we usually see only what is for the Highest and Best good of all involved, and we are not always supposed to know everything.
That being said, I find that the majority of the time people who cannot get intuitive information for themselves simply don’t listen to it. It can be subtle at times and our minds get in the way. We get information for ourselves, and then think “that can’t be right” or “that doesn’t make sense, or is not what I want”, or something like that. Our subconscious belief systems sometimes kick in and negate what we just got. That effectively blocks further intuitive information from coming through.
A client can shut down my flow of energy immediately by blocking me in this way, and we can block ourselves this way too.

Being able to quiet the mind so that impressions can come through is also helpful. Meditation is very useful for this.
I would say a good first step is trying to release the ego mind and release ‘how you think it should be’, and get out of your own way and see how it goes.
I often get answers for myself if I ponder the issue/question at night. I will wake up in the morning, and while I am having my coffee things start to present to me.

Hope this helps,
Tamara

I really don’t know where they come from but the vibes so to speak are always so STRONG that I NEED TO ACT ON THEM … and they have somehow always been … not only right but in a few cases more than just beneficial – but also healthy wise – … hmmm RIGHT ON and I have been so thankful that I followed my intuition or ??? whatever it wAS.

I know that this doesn’t seem to be something that I can see/absorb/vision for myself which is sad … but I do wish that pehaps there is a way that this could be accomplished ??? What do you think??

I know and believe that I have been able to help at least 2 VERY CLOSE friends IN THIS WAY … and a # of others in not so tough ways … just by being able to spend time ‘listening to them’ and understanding what they want to say … and that is OK … that is what is important .. for BOTH of us … It is the way to truly understand what each of us are saying…. or trying to share. At least this is how I feel …

WOW … uimmm I didn’t think that I would be able to share as much of myself with you – and yet I chose you as someone , like I have Chris Parr, to perhaps ask to share some of your abilities.

I know, deep down, that I have a lot to share and help … as I do m=with my close friebds and lately somehow many more … …

Thank ou for being here … xoxoxoxoxo