So here is your question of the month.  Take your time pondering it, I think what you first think your answer might be would be inaccurate.

I can tell you that based on actions, most of you think that pain is far more comfortable than fear of the unknown.  Sad isn’t it.  You would rather stay in an uncomfortable painful situation than work through your fears of the unknown and live a better life.

If asked outright most of you would say that pain is worse.  That it is silly to inflict pain upon yourself.  Most of you are doing just that though.

• You are afraid to move jobs
• You are afraid to move house/cities
• You are afraid to let go of damaging relationships
• You are afraid to take care of yourself, you have been so brainwashed by …. (parents, media, religion, school, spouses, fill in the blank), that you think you are powerless and can’t do anything on your own
• You are afraid to commit to making changes (weight loss, smoking, etc.)

Staying Stuck is A Choice

When your fear of change stays in the forefront of your thoughts it stays stronger than the pain in your current situation; you stop allowing for any changes at all.

I keep hearing “I don’t like what I have, I am so sad, I feel so stuck, I don’t know what to do”.  The answer is allow change.  Work through your fear.  Pray for the willingness to change.

Everyone has times like this in their life, you are not alone in these feelings.  Change is rarely comfortable.  Sometimes you need to just figure out what your end game is.  Things rarely change overnight.  You want a quick fix for everything.  The only thing you can change quickly is yourself ~ via YOUR thoughts, YOUR actions, YOUR life.

You need to take a good look at your choices and make a decision what you want.  All change IS a choice.  Pain and discomfort indefinitely, or short term discomfort (via change) for long term happiness?  YOUR CHOICE.

 

 

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