Over the years I have had people tell me that I have it easy.  Even as a teenager my sister told me that I was “lucky“, she said “you always get what you want” etc.  Some people say that to me now as well.

I do realize that I am a little bit different than a lot of people.  But if you are reading this you are different than a lot of people too.  That’s the thing about us humans, we are all different.

Where we are in our lives basically boils down to a few things.  People who feel more successful think and do different things than people who feel unsuccessful.

You can have two people who have the exact same life and one will feel more successful than the other.  That feeling comes from within.  The one who feels more successful will be the one that looks ‘on the bright side’, the one who feels less successful will talk or think about what went wrong.  It is these feelings that will create more of the same old same old in your life.  Right down to the people that show up for you on a daily basis.  Do they annoy you, or uplift you?

So, what is the same for all of us as humans?

At our core you all want the same things (love, happiness, appreciation, to feel safe …), but how those things manifest for each of you is different.

• Our opportunities are the same.
• We all have the ability to practice (and use), our intuition.
• We all live on an abundant planet.
• If you are reading this you have access to the internet, which is training, information, knowledge, friendship.

What’s Different?

• The decisions you make.
• Where you put your focus.
• Your knowledge and education.
• Your amount of motivation.
• The amount of time you will spend on getting what you want.
• What you are willing to do to get what you want.
• What you are willing to give up in order to make changes to get what you want.

 

It is your thoughts and your energy that create for you.

I’m loathe to focus on the negative parts of my own life, but I think that by sharing some things from my own challenges it will help you see that ultimately, LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE IT.  I can share these things, then let them go.  But because I meditate every day, and “I’m over it”, I am pretty sure that as I share I will have very little feelings involved.  I can write this stuff out or talk about it with no ego involvement, just a detached observer.  I am actually very grateful for my challenges because it enables me to be a lot more compassionate when I do my readings ~ for a lot of stuff I see in readings, I’ve ‘been there done that’.  It helps me help you better.

Okay.  So my parents divorced when I was 1 year old.  My dad hit my mom and I saw it.  My dad was an alcoholic and a heroin addict and I remember visiting him in jail when I was 10.  I also remember being afraid to see him because I never knew who would show up (someone on drugs & happy, or someone needing drugs and upset, or just drunk and mean).

I quit school 3 or 4 times in grade 10 and never went back.  (I got my GED in my 20’s because I needed it to get a promotion at work).

There have been times in my life where I completely ‘forgot’ that I was psychic.  And I mean completely.   I had zero connection with source zero intuition and felt just as lost as most other people on the planet.

In my 20’s I lived with a verbally abusive guy that did coke (then started freebasing).  I truly thought that I was the crazy one. (This is just one of many times in my life where I had ZERO intuition).

I also dated a few other alcoholics/drug addicts/abusive men.

I have been a single mom with a son.  Of course his dad also ended up being an abusive alcoholic, drug addicted abusive man that screwed around on me.  We were both happy when I became pregnant, and split up when I was 3-4 months pregnant.

I wound up on stress leave from work at one point when my son was 2.  My doctor prescribed anti-depressants for me (I didn’t take them, I worked on healing myself and my situation instead).  A LOT of ‘depression’ is simply caused by our situations.  Change the situation and the depression goes away.  That’s why I quit my high-paying government job for good when my son was 3.  I wasn’t ‘clinically’ depressed, I was in a bad situation.  My health was more important than the money.

I have been physically ill as well.  Where for months I couldn’t do squat.  If I ever had to do anything, I had to do it first thing in the morning, because after about 10 am, I needed a nap.  I was in constant physical pain, exercise made me more tired…

Its not always easy but what is your excuse?

If you look at the lists above, where do you fit in?  Can you get yourself into that “What’s Different” list and start making changes?  What is it that you are willing to do to make changes in your life and feel better?

No one can rescue you.  You need to make some decisions and take a good look at the list above to see what is different in people who are more successful.  What is different in people who overcome difficulties?

I had a mentor when I was going through some of these things, and she was a great help to get me to where I am now.  She taught me so much in my 30’s that I am sure she was instrumental in helping me get my energy (and life) straight.  Without her, I would not be where I am today I’m sure.  As much as no one can rescue you, some people can help you create the life you want.

 

I am presently taking on more mentoring clients.  If you are truly ready to make a change, to do what it takes, to release the old and embrace the new, I can probably help you.

You can look here for a bit more information on psychic coaching and mentoring.

Take note.  I DO charge for mentoring. If you are not ready to make a financial commitment that equals your energetic commitment then it might not be for you at this time. You can take a look at my psychic readings page if you would like just a one-off appointment.