Comments on: If you don’t like it, don’t engage with it https://tamarahawk.com/2015/05/05/if-you-dont-like-it-dont-engage-with-it/ Psychic Readings, Mentoring, and Spiritual Counselling Worldwide by Phone, E-mail or In Person Wed, 06 May 2015 08:24:25 +0000 hourly 1 By: Paul Piotrowski https://tamarahawk.com/2015/05/05/if-you-dont-like-it-dont-engage-with-it/#comment-38612 Wed, 06 May 2015 08:24:25 +0000 http://www.tamarahawk.com/?p=3173#comment-38612 Yup, exactly. You get what you focus your attention on.

You don’t get what you want by focusing on what you don’t want.

You don’t solve a problem by focusing ON the problem, only by focusing on it’s solution.

People sometimes say that if you’re not looking at the problem, it means that you’re being delusional and you’re in denial. That is not true. There’s nothing wrong with look at a challenge/problem that comes up for a moment which gives us the contrast to see what we don’t want… but then we need to STOP looking at that problem and look for the solution.

Sitting there and STARING at the problem and complaining about it isn’t going to solve it.

-Paul

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