Its a New Moon today.  What do you want in your life?  All year we have had infusions of light energy that are empowering us to create the lives we desire.  Our manifestations are getting faster and faster and stronger and stronger.

Unfortunately, a lot of you are still stuck in playing the ‘blame game’ and thinking of yourself as small and powerless.  You may see things seemingly falling apart for you.  You may think “I didn’t sign up for this, why is everything going wrong?”

It is because its time to MOVE.  You need to take 100% responsibility for your life and you need to stop pouting when things don’t look exactly how you thought you imagined them; and you need to keep your focus on what you WANT.

You need to stop blaming;  the economy, the government, your boss, your spouse, the big ‘corporations’, society, the banks…..  Yes, some of those things may seem like big blocks to your success, but they aren’t.  If you are not successful, you are the block to your success. 

When things work out for you, maybe you hold the energy that you are kinda grateful, but hey, things could be better.  You might be happy for a few minutes, maybe even an hour, but then your focus goes right back to what is wrong, or could use improvement in your life.

This is not to be mistaken with an energy of “Wow, I mastered that!  Onward and upward to the next challenge!”  The energy I’m talking about, that you need to get rid of, is “Wow, that was great; but I still have so much lousy stuff to deal with”.

Maybe when things go a little sideways you are kinda PO’d, and then you start blaming someone or something else for what has happened.  The ‘stupid’ company decided to downsize.  The ‘stupid’ corporations/grocery stores raised the price of food again.  The ‘stupid’ 1% raised the price of gas again.  All BLAME.

No, you can’t control your company, the price of food, gas or anything else, BUT, you can control yourself and your thoughts.  Every time you complain about something like that you create more of it.

You may find yourself saying, yeah, but I’m usually a positive person, and I am truly grateful when things go well, but they only go well for a short time and then I’m screwed all over again.

I can tell you exactly what is going on here and you probably won’t like it and that’s okay.  You do need to consider it though if you want things in your life to change.

So, you may be grateful that you have a job ~ then you continually bitch about your boss, coworkers, rate of pay or customers.

If you are self-employed, you may be grateful when you get clients or customers, but when you get paid you think “I’m grateful for this customer, but my bills are so high and there are things I want that I can’t have today, I am never going to get ahead at this rate”.

You have a home, and you may say you are grateful to have it, but then you complain about what it looks like or a room that needs paint, or furniture that is old, or it is cluttered or hard to keep clean, or…..

You are in a relationship and you say you love your spouse and are happy, but then you complain about their habits, their attitude, the way they treat you, the fact they are too tired after work to do anything with you, their weight, their eating habits, whatever.

All of these thoughts/things are you creating.  They are you being happy situationally.  You are not authentically happy ~ you choose to pin your happiness on what all these little external things look like.

This doesn’t mean that you are never allowed to be in a bad mood, or sad, or cry, or mourn a loss.  It does mean that you must take every measure necessary to NOT wallow in it.   Nothing wrong with thinking “well, that threw me for a loop, I didn’t expect that” and to actually be a bit angry or down for a little while.

However, if you choose to wallow in it, rant on and on about examples of how this “always happens” and say stuff like “well I was happy, and then this happened, so now I’m not happy anymore” and then you follow it up with, “I don’t know why this keeps happening to me”.

I can tell you why this keeps happening to you.

It is the Law of Attraction

We are manifesting now faster than ever.  You squandered your opportunity to be really grateful when something good happened by saying, “thanks, but its not enough, now I am still lacking….”

AND when something went even a little bit wrong, you ranted about it for HOURS.  “Oh, the inequality of it all”.

If you would put as half as much energy into the gratitude for the little positive things, as you put into the dismay at the little negative things, you would see EVERYTHING turn around for you, AND FAST.

You are not to blame yourself either!!!

There is a huge energetic difference between blaming yourself and taking responsibility for yourself.  You have done what you know up to this point.  No sense in feeling guilt and blame for something you did in the past.  I wrote last week about the need to forgive yourself.  That was a precursor to the energy of the day today.

If you blame yourself, you are just energetically sending yourself right back into victim mode.  That won’t get you to where you want and need to be.

If you acknowledge your past and consciously forgive yourself and then take responsibility for yourself, you will change everything.  You will realize that everything that has happened up to this point in your life was your doing.  It may have been uncomfortable but it is discomfort that promotes growth.  If you were always comfortable you would never change, learn or grow.

By taking responsibility you can take a good look at all that has happened.  You can see how your thoughts, (which created your actions), brought you to where you are today.  Then you can change your thoughts and your vibration and give ‘er to create what you want more of.

When you can look at the events of your past and your present with gratitude for what they are showing you ~ THAT is when you will be able to empower yourself to do, have and be differently.

Change your thoughts, change your life.

 

 

 

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