So Venus goes retrograde today until September 6th.  There are currently 6 planets retrograde at the moment.  The next few weeks will be intense, but it can be in a good way.

If you have been working on letting stuff go in your life and moving forward you should be fine.  If you have been avoiding letting go, the next few weeks may appear to be difficult for you.  There are a lot of relationships that will adjust while Venus is retrograde.

If you are in a healthy loving relationship, it could get even better.  Even if you don’t think it could, there could be more intimacy, or opening up together, new understandings of each other, or maybe just great sex!

If you are looking for a relationship, you may find one.  Just be very discerning with dating and meeting new people if you haven’t dealt with your crap from the past.  You run the risk of finding more of the same old baggage if you still have it.  Not a good idea.

If you are clear of your baggage and have let go of and healed your past, then maybe you will just meet the person of your dreams.

If you are in an unhealthy relationship, there just may be enough stuff come up during the retrograde to be finally able to let it all go once and for all (this might be uncomfortable at the time, but boy oh boy will you feel better later).

The last 5 months of the year will feel like they are moving even faster than the previous 7 months of 2015 ~ hard to believe, but its true.

The entire energy of the planet is changing and things are ramping up!

The most important aspect is SELF LOVE

You absolutely must practice self-love and acceptance.  You cannot be in a healthy loving relationship until you love yourself.  You can do this by treating yourself the way you would treat your best friend.  Be forgiving and loving of yourself.  Nurture yourself.  If you have problems with doing this you can try writing down things you need to forgive yourself for, stop talking to yourself in your head in a negative way, write a list of all your positive aspects.  What can you appreciate yourself for?  How would your best friend describe you?

You absolutely MUST look out for yourself.  What is it that you want out of your life?

You need to do what is right for you.  If you are unable to do what is right for you, then nothing you do for anyone else will be right for them.  If you are unbalanced then no one in your life can meet you in a balanced way.

There is a difference between selfishness and narcissism.  Narcissism is unhealthy ego ~ an ego that is feeling (feeding) from outside (looking for attention) with a lack of empathy (for self or others).

Selfishness is taking care of you and your Soul first.  If you take care of yourself first then you will have more than enough to give others, you will not ever run out of your own divine power.

Unhealthy ego separates you from your power.  Healthy ego takes care of you.  Worrying about whether someone loves you back, or being a martyr or victim are all very unhealthy ego states.

If you allow for the flow and the self care, you will find that this Venus retrograde period has the potential to open your heart and expand your soul.  It can be very enjoyable indeed.

 

 

 

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