Dependency ~ it is NOT a positive vibration

We need to get away from this energy of dependency.  It is not healthy for the dependent person, nor is it healthy for the person being depended on.

We absolutely DO need to come together in cooperation and sharing; but dependency is another thing altogether.

Yes, your children are dependent on you.  But only for a short time.  If you “child” is an adult and they are dependent on you, they are stunted.  If your teenager cannot do things for themselves and cannot make a decision to save their life, they are overly dependent.

There are exceptions to this of course for medical reasons, but for the most part we need to allow others to grow and we need to allow ourselves to grow.

Dependency is where we cannot take care of ourselves ~ or when the people in our lives cannot take care of themselves without us.

If we allow others to be overly dependent on us, we are stunting them and we are controlling them.  We are saying that we do not trust them to take care of themselves and make good decisions.  We are taking away their power.  It is more about controlling them than helping them and it is more about us than it is about them and their abilities (and personal power).

If we are overly dependent on someone else, we are giving away our personal power.  We are not trusting that we can get things done and create our own lives.  We set ourselves up to be blindsided.  We set ourselves up to be controlled and manipulated.

When we are in a relationship with a significant other we need to remember that we are two souls having a human experience.  We come into these relationships to share and grow.  NOT to control, not to rely fully on someone else for our happiness and well being.

Your well being is your job.  Your spouse’s well being is their job.  If you take too much responsibility for someone else, you are stunting them.  If you expect someone else to take care of you and you depend on them for everything, you are stunting yourself.  You and they will get tired out.

There are also a lot of people dependent on the government.  On ‘them’.  Dependent on the system to feed them, to provide hydro power, to provide safety and security.  This can work when everything is going well, but all you need to do is look at the news.  At people who go through a natural disaster or something and because they are completely dependent on ‘the systems’ they fall apart.

You need to empower yourself.  You need to help empower those that are dependent on you.

There are many ways in which we DO need to come together to support each other, cooperation is a good thing and there is strength in numbers.

But one person can only carry someone else for so long.  It is not sustainable.  Not if either of you want happiness.

Just as ‘the system’ can only carry the ‘masses’ for so long; and only so long as things remain static.  Any changes to the earth, the financial system, the balance of power, and ‘the masses’ will need to depend on themselves.

This is not meant to be a doom and gloom post, quite the contrary.  You are stronger than you think.  The people who are in your life that are dependent on you are stronger than you think.  We all need to cooperate together and to empower one another.  It will make the world a happier place.

 

 

 

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