You Must Ask for What You Want

As we go through life we need to learn how to ask for what we want.  As children we were good at asking for what we wanted.

You cannot expect to get what you want if you do not ask for it.  Most people around you are not mind readers.

There is a trend of people being passive-aggressive in trying to get what they want ~ or to punish people for not giving them what they want, even if they haven’t even asked yet.

Thing is, that if you ask for something, most of the time you will get it.  Not all the time, but if you ask your family for something chances are if they know you really need it or that it would make you happy, they will give it to you ~ if they can.

Psychic readings and help from your guides and angels works that way too.  Your guides and angels won’t interfere in your life.  However, if you ask them to help you they will do what they can.

With readings, when sitting with someone like me, sometimes you and I have to ask a specific question in order to get a specific answer.  Or if there’s a loved one you want to talk to, sometimes we need to ask them to come through (sometimes they come through before we even ask, but not always).

Demanding and asking are two different things as well.  You need to be reasonable with what you are asking of someone.  Most people won’t give you loan after loan if you haven’t paid them back.  Most people won’t be willing to help you if you are not willing to help yourself.

What you will find though is that as you begin to ask for what you want in a way that expresses gratitude for what you already have, things will come to you more easily.

Is someone more likely to help you when you approach them with an energy of passive aggressiveness, or demand, or entitlement ~ or are they more likely to help you when you are grateful for that person in your life, for what you already have, and are grateful for any help they offer you?

Make sure you ask for what it is you want and need, knowing that you will get it if it is doable for whomever you are asking (whether it is help from someone on earth, or a spirit helper).

Are there any areas in your life where you need to ask for something?  Would letting go of your resentments of not having your needs met help you to feel better?

You can even ask your own higher self for help if you don’t yet know how to ask for what you need.  You could just affirm “Please help me to better communicate my needs and what I want from a place of love, knowing and trusting that what I require will come to me”.

 

 

 

 

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