Energy Alert, Full Moon, Total Lunar Eclipse, July 27, 2018

We have a big one coming up tomorrow!  This lunar eclipse is huge energetically for us.  The planets are aligning for you to release any old karmic patterns in your life.  Friday will be a good day to write down anything that is no longer serving you, anything that is frustrating you or that you feel is holding you back, and then burn it!

Release, let it go.

For anyone that has already signed up for the energy work I am starting next Wednesday, I will be adding some energy clearing to your Full Moon Clearing intentions.  If you sign up after Friday, not to worry, this session (Aug 1-8) of the energy work will still be super powerful.

I want you to ask yourself something coming into this full moon:

How much of your frustrations are coming from someone else?  Be honest.  Is it your boss?  Your spouse, parent, child?  Your next door neighbour?

Now is a good time to realize that you cannot control other people.  You can only take control of yourself.  How many times have you said “If only they” would do, be, or change to something else?

What if they don’t?  Most of them will NOT change into who you want them to be.  You can only change yourself.  We have been talking a lot over the past months about taking care of YOU.  Doing what you need to empower yourself, to take care of yourself, emotionally, mentally, physically, financially.  You can’t keep waiting for things and people around you to change in order for you to have the life you want.

It doesn’t always mean you need to leave people either (although sometimes that would be best).  It means that you need to do what you need to do FOR YOU.  If you could do anything what would it be?  If you answered that last sentence with “but I can’t because of someone else”, you need to rephrase that for yourself.  You can so.

Aside from children in our care, or someone else with a physical/mental illness that needs our support, you can do almost anything.  Even with ‘dependents’, you can change the way you are looking at things and your circumstances can change.

Some of you are exhausted from caring for others.  Some of you are exhausted from thinking you have to do things for other people that they could do themselves.  What if you just started to take care of you?  Get your teeth done, go to a chiropractor, get that gym membership, buy that good food….  What if you just took care of you?  You can’t take care of other people without taking care of you.

You can NEVER “make someone else happy”.  Your happiness comes from within.  When you try and make someone else happy, then you simply take blame (or get blamed) when they are unhappy.  If you expect other people to make YOU happy, then you get stuck in a control loop where if they aren’t doing what you want them to do you are unhappy.

When you think you are taking care of someone else, you are often just avoiding your own life.  Sometimes ‘other people’ are a really good excuse to NOT do what you came here to do.  “Oh, I can’t do that because…”  (insert someone else’s name and ‘stuff’ here).  You are NOT responsible for creating for someone else!!

This doesn’t mean that you need to be a jerk to other people either.  Being a jerk is often another way to try and gain control over them.  You need to work on allowing them to be what/who they need to be without trying to change them.  You also need to work on allowing you to be what/who YOU want to be, without judging yourself.  It’s all about LOVE ~ not the conditional kind ~ can you love yourself and others’ enough to LET THEM BE?

When Tamara works with clients, we often will tell them that if they change their energy, the people and situations around them will change or leave.  And it works, 100% of the time.  Only things that match your vibration will continue to be in your life.  If you allow yourself to feel like a victim of someone else, or if you feel that you cannot change your circumstances, then you can’t.

Once you realize that you can change anything about yourself or YOUR circumstances, then things WILL change.  They HAVE to.  If you really ‘get it’, your vibration will be different.  When you change your vibration things change.

What would your life look like if you took care of yourself?  Maybe the day after the Full Moon when you write down and burn everything you want to leave behind, you write out what your life would look like if there was nothing holding you back.

Solutions will not come when you are making excuses or blaming someone else for where you are.  Solutions will come when you start to allow yourself to dream what your life would be like if you took care of You and what You are doing with your days instead of trying to control the days of other people.

Time to raise your vibration and deal with YOUR stuff.  When you take care of that you will be surprised at the positive things that can and will happen in your life.

We think we will leave this here for now.  We think this is enough for you to ponder over the next few days.

Always with Love,

Tamara Hawk, and Sam (the channeled collective)