I was getting ready to go down to see a friend for lunch in the states. While I was blow drying my hair in the morning, I was told by my guides that I’d be stopped at the border and sent inside, which doesn’t happen very often. They did not tell me anything more, just that I would have to go in.

I KNOW that we can all create our own realities and I know that the Law of Attraction works. So, I was thinking about it, and thought, gee, if I put my focus on just going right through, and really put the ‘big desire’ to sail right thorough ‘out there’, then I know I can.

That’s basically how psychic readings/messages work. I get the information, it’s up to the receiver (in this case me), to decide what to do about it. Sometimes when I see things like this ahead of time I do really want to change it (so I manifest the change using the Law of Attraction). This time though, as I was driving down the highway on the way to the border crossing, I was just thinking, “I don’t really care”. I just couldn’t muster up the “burning desire” to create not stopping. Besides, my guides didn’t tell me it would be bad, just that it would happen. Also, I know from experience that sometimes detours are just rerouting opportunities or a way to be shown something new.

So, I get to the border, there wasn’t much of a lineup, cars were pulling forward one at a time, I got in a line and waited my turn. I get up to the border and get asked the usual questions “where are you from, where are you going etc.”. Then the border guard says “can I have your keys please, she takes my keys, checks the trunk, comes around to the passenger side of the car, rifles through my purse and tells me to pull over and go inside.

No biggie really, I’ve got nothing to hide or anything I’m not supposed to have so in I go.

I’m waiting inside the door (it’s a smaller border crossing office) and a really pleasant Border Guard says “I’ll be right with you”. AND YES, I SAID A PLEASANT BORDER GUARD.

So in a minute, he comes back and I walk up to the counter. He’s got amazing energy. He ‘feels’ quite happy and is smiling and just simply pleasant. I’ve never gotten such a warm reception from a border guard. I won’t mention the crossing I was at, or precisely when because I don’t want to get anyone in trouble. I think the guards are trained to be intimidating rather than friendly.

So I told him what I do, psychic readings, and that me and my hubby have a concrete cutting company. Then I sat down for my wait. Partway through my wait, he asked me what I charged. I said “$250 for a full hour, but there are variations”.

After about 35 more minutes he handed me my keys and passport and said I could go. I told him that if he was intrigued by the ‘psychic’ thing that I had a website. He said “I know” and pointed to his computer. He had googled me while I was waiting.

While checking on me he had called the friend I was meeting to confirm that we were just having lunch and that I wasn’t working while in the US. So she knew I would be late. While waiting for me, she had the opportunity to read part of a good book which she doesn’t get to do very often with young children.

So back to my point about, “Why change it”. Being stopped at the border was actually a very pleasant experience for me that day. As a matter of fact, dealing with the fellow I dealt with there was probably the highlight of my day. You know how just interacting with someone who is pleasant and has good energy can be uplifting and help you be in a better mood.

Also, I got the impression he was quite interested in the whole “Psychic Medium” thing. Who knows what he got out of our meeting. Maybe he read parts of my blog and it helped him in some way. Maybe he or someone in his family will end up requiring the services of a medium in the future and I will be able to help them.

The thing is, we don’t always know what the Universe has in store. Everything is a matter of perspective. When I got the message that I would be stopped at the border, if I had had the perspective that it was a negative thing I could have either changed it or turned it into a negative thing.

In my case, I consciously thought “Thanks for letting me know, it’s no big deal, I’ll just arrive at my destination later”. By doing that and just going with the flow, I ended up having a great day, my friend got in some much-needed reading time, I got a good example to share with you in a blog post, and who knows what else changed just because of one little stop.