There are a lot of things being illuminated during this full moon. One of the biggest is seeing where you are being a victim.  Are there areas of your life where you feel like things are being ‘done to you’.

We are all on this journey together. Sometimes when we feel like things are being done to us we feel powerless.  What if, in certain areas of your life, things are being done for you, not to you?

We are going through the process of ascension. The energy of the entire planet is changing.  This process has been going on for decades, and will be continuing for quite some time.  You chose to be here for this.  It can be difficult, but mostly because we have been and are constantly being programmed to feel powerless.  The news, social media, the radio ~ we are constantly bombarded with negativity.

Have you ever heard on the radio “Call in and tell us what your pet peeve is?”, or “Call and tell us what you hate about (fill in the blank)”.

This has you focusing on all that you do not like in your life. You hear things like this and you immediately come up with a list in your head of things you don’t like.  Guess what, the more you focus on something, the more you get of it.  People milk this stuff.  They get passionate and engaged with this type of energy.  That is why it works so well and that is why you feel so powerless.

In news stories, if there’s a line-up of people stuck in a traffic jam because of a mud slide, who do they interview? People who are angry that they are stuck in traffic.  People who say things like “They should have done something about this, how could ‘they’ let a mud slide happen here!  Someone needs to be held accountable!  My whole world is falling apart because I am stuck in traffic”

People who say, “Stuff happens, not much you can do about a mud slide, this has been unprecedented rainfall this week. I’ll eventually get where I’m going.  Who knows, maybe this is my higher self’s way of protecting me from something up ahead.”, do not make the newscast.  They aren’t ‘newsworthy’ because they aren’t bitching and complaining.  How exciting is it to be calm?  Not much drama and victimization there.

So, this weekend, look at your life and see where you are playing victim. It’s not what happens in life, it is how you perceive it.  Perception is everything.  Have you really been screwed-over, or have you been offered an opportunity to change and grow?

Your belief systems shape your reality. It might be time to really look at what your belief systems are and make a conscious decision to change the ones that are not helping you.  You can ya know.  It starts with practicing awareness of what it is you are thinking.  Get off ‘auto-pilot”.  Your subconscious controls over 95% of your life.  The more ‘conscious’ you can be the more you can change your life.  Where do your thoughts go when you aren’t paying attention to them?

Do you blame? Do you victimize yourself?  Do you believe the world is broken and needs fixing?  Do you allow your happiness to come from outside yourself?  Do you get sucked into thinking negative thoughts when you are around negativity or do you turn it off and think about how great parts of your life are?

All of these things create your vibration, your next steps, and your life.

I just want to add, that if things are not going well, just as we don’t want to blame others, you don’t want to go into blaming yourself either. You have always done your best and done what you could do with the information you had at the time.  It serves no purpose to rake yourself over the coals and get mad at yourself.  Remember, whatever you are thinking is what you are vibrating and what you will create more of.  So rather than say “I’m dumb” (or any other negative self-talk), say “I’m glad I realized that!  I’m so grateful to know more now.  Now I can begin to take some next steps to create differently!”

Just as you wouldn’t get mad at a child for crawling before they could walk, do not get mad at yourself for going through this process in stages. And all of these stages are necessary.

We are in a “1” Year

We are presently in a 1 year in numerology. You may be feeling like things just aren’t getting off the ground right now.  You’ve got all these ideas, all these projects, and nothing is happening! Where is the movement?  The payoff?  The reward!?  We are in a 1 year, we are supposed to be beginning new things and they aren’t coming!!!

Well, the energy of the 1 year is certainly going strong. We have had huge energetic transformations since August (and of course the stresses before that!).  During this year, we are laying groundwork.  We are seeing what needs to be shifted and adjusted and hopefully we are making some internal changes.  We have choices, we can play victim, or we can make decisions to shift things for ourselves.  That is why so many victim stories are coming out in the news.  People are coming out, calling out, and are saying “I won’t be a victim anymore, I won’t let anyone else be victimized.”

This is a shift in the energy of all of us.

As you are going through this, you have a choice. You can either heal what is coming up for you, or you can re-live it over the next 9 year cycle.  If you refuse to be a victim, if you refuse to get sucked into the energetic vortex of victimhood, your life can begin to move forward. This next cycle can be different.

In this 1 year, you are preparing for what you want for the next 9 year cycle. Your thoughts and ideas might not come to fruition by the end of the year, but the momentum you build up over the next couple of months will serve you well through the entire next cycle.

That is actually why I decided to do the Energy Clearing and Healing Sessions for the last 4 months of the year.  We don’t want to be repeating all these old patterns!

Who are you? Who do you want to be?

You are a powerful creator. You might be feeling a little bit stubborn during this full moon.  If you find yourself ‘hanging on’ or being stubborn about something, maybe it’s time to take a really good look at your situation.  Are you resisting change?  Are you trying to control someone or something?  Are you truly “in the right”, or are you just being stubborn, trying to hang onto old belief systems?

This weekend is a great time to get out of your head and start listening to your soul. Your soul wants you to allow things to change for the better for you.  Your soul is not a victim.  Your soul knows why you came here, knows what it wanted to experience, to overcome, to learn.  If something is not working for you, then something needs to change.  Dig deep, what can you change?  If you remove the energy of blame, being a victim, and being stubborn you will be surprised at what your soul will share with you.

There will be some people reading this that will actually email me or comment and argue for their limitations. They will actually tell me that I am wrong, that they are a victim, and that I simply do not understand.  They will give me lists of things that are wrong with their life, they will hang on like a pit-bull to all the disempowering energy and beliefs that they have.  It happens every single time I write about us creating our life.

I am not saying that it is always easy. I am saying that anything is possible.  It all depends on your perspective and the way you choose to view things.  Remember the ‘bigger picture’, focus on gratitude and appreciation.  You will get more of it!

With Love

Tamara

 

 

 

 

 

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